Seoul really feels like somewhere halfway between China and Tokyo (I'm tempted to say Japan, but I haven't really ventured too far beyond Tokyo). Seoul is cleaner, hipper and less chaotic than China, but not as hyper-perfect as Tokyo can be. Possibly a flash-forward to what Shanghai will be like in 10 years. They dress like the Chinese, but like the Japanese they avoid eye contact with strangers. Seoul is affordable for travelers, very much unlike Japan. The food was to die for, even for a vegetarian. It seems a bit weird to me that Seoul isn't more of a "destination city".
On Friday, I went on a tour to Panmunjom, in the "demilitarized zone" (DMZ) between South and North Korea. The tour itself was a lot of kitschy build-up and drama, but underwhelming for the most part. But I did learn a lot more about the modern history of Korea. Setting aside the US' childish demonization of the North, the story of the past 100 years leading to where Korea is today is just heartbreaking (no thanks to the Japanese either, mind you). Seoul is just 40 km from the North-South border, and Pyongyang is just 200 km beyond that. That's less than the distance between New York and Boston. Yet, because of an arbitrary border drawn up by some trigger-happy army guy (i.e., not a Korean), thousands of families have been torn apart, cutoff from their relatives for almost 60 years now.
The most memorable and sombre moment of the past week was over dinner, when our friend Sung Gul told us how he dreamt of "one Korea".